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Beware of People Who Say They Want to “Help” You to Not be Offensive
The scourge of passive-aggression
Recently on Facebook one of my friends posted a silly thing about how arrogant teenagers are. Why are modern teenagers so arrogant and entitled? Most people had fun with it. Teenagers have always been that way, etc. One person said, “Probably because they didn’t get sent up chimneys when they were little.” Meaning as chimney sweeps and the horrible conditions many children worked under in the past. It was obviously a joke and everybody in the comment thread knew that.
Except for one guy. There’s always one guy. This one guy, a professional “poet” and world-saver, got offended. But was he offended at the joke? No, he didn’t even understand the reference.
He got offended because he thought it was about burning Jews in the Holocaust.
Naturally, good samaritan that I am, I explained it to him. Did he thank me? Did he back off? Hell no. As is often the case when “intellectuals” and “poets” misunderstand something, he couldn’t just admit he made an error and move on. He had to double down. He didn’t like the tone of my explanation. Didn’t I realize he was a genius? Of course, he understood the reference! He was only pointing out that many Jewish people…
